At Fever parties, new couples have admitted to pacing the pavement for 20 minutes before they knocked the door. There is nothing but safety and a welcome inside, mixed with a little opportunity if you feel in the mood later on. The worst thing that can happen is that you spend a few hours chatting over some drinks before slipping away. At your first-ever event, be sure to tell people you speak to that you are first-timers.
Everyone remembers their first time and feels protective towards newcomers and they will make allowances for any awkwardness you show through inexperience. Take an intelligent view of what to expect at your first party. In particular, take careful note of exactly what sort of party it is.
Does the advertising specify that it is couples only? If not, there will certainly be extra men there. There are huge numbers millions of men who want to go to swinging parties without having to take a female partner and they are prepared to pay well over the odds. Many party promoters give in to the temptation to meet this demand. And even at these men do not behave inappropriately towards women. Pay attention to where the party is being held. If it is in a house, there will probably be fewer people but drinks are usually free and there are likely to be beds upstairs.
If it is in commercial premises, such as a nightclub or bar, they can hold more people; they are usually more conveniently located; there is likely to be a paybar but there are not likely to be beds. Playrooms can consist of just tables and chairs or even less. But if that does not appeal to you, it can be worth going just to meet couples you can arrange to see again by yourselves in a more congenial environment. This brings us to the people you are likely to meet.
Very few events indeed specify age limits and if you are not going to one of these, you can expect that there will be some grandparents present. But it is also unusual for a party not to have a few young and really attractive couples who are worth going just to meet. Just brace yourselves for the age mix to avoid disappointment. Finally, there is tone. Read this advertisment for a new swinging club in London advertised on the web in A couple who went to this club would know exactly what they were getting for their money.
